Dear Men, Why Can’t You Just Admit You Watch Porn? Is It That Big A Deal?

Every so often on my iPad (which I share with my boyfriend) I’ll come across a fuck load of porn in the recent history, I know this porn definitely isn’t mine so that leaves the only other person in the house. Him. I playfully bring it up here and there to which he immediately freaks out and shuts down, denying everything, saying “I don’t watch porn” or “that’s nasty I don’t do that”. The other day I was playing on his phone so I thought to check his history, out of curiousity. Well behold the mother load of porn. I’m talking every type you could imagine, and lots of it. This time when I brought it up to him he said it was “solely for research purposes for us to try” okay yeah, so all this nasty shit is “research” well he must loooove his research…. I honestly don’t care that he looks, I just don’t understand the point of hiding it and lying about it.. Maybe it’s just a girl/guy thing? Will there always be a kind of shame surrounding porongraphy regardless of the comfort level/ openness of the relationship? Just questions I ask myself. The male species will always fascinate and frustrate me. 

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